Anonymous asked: I just graduated from college, so my living situation (lease is ending and I might move in with my sister for a few weeks to save $) and work situation (no permanent job yet) are hectic. I am focusing on MYSELF and being optimistic like any strong lady, but I'm also dating a little and wondering how/when do I tell the dude about my possibly turbulent personal life?
Everybody’s personal life is turbulent. Unless he’s a complete douche, he’ll understand. I’d present it in a way that’s more like “Ugh, isn’t moving/being funemployed/being out in the real world the worst?!” Everybody - and I mean evvvverybody - has gone through the time in your life that you’re going through right now, so that can actually be something you and a dude have in common rather than something you should be worried about telling him! Remember: Every shit cloud has a toilet paper lining. ;) - Bley